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		<title>What Would You Like Your Husband&#8217;s Ex to Know About Your Life?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a guest post on Jennifer Newcomb Marine and Carole Marine&#8217;s No One&#8217;s the Bitch Website today. As you know, I strongly feel that women don&#8217;t need the additional pressure of &#8220;fixing it&#8221; with hubby&#8217;s ex. Civility is often a difficult enough goal, and we need to be very careful about siphoning energy away [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have a guest post on Jennifer Newcomb Marine and Carole Marine&#8217;s No One&#8217;s the Bitch Website today. As you know, I strongly feel that women don&#8217;t need the additional pressure of &#8220;fixing it&#8221; with hubby&#8217;s ex. Civility is often a difficult enough goal, and we need to be very careful about siphoning energy away from self-care and tending to our marriage, given how depleting stepmothering is, and how vulnerable remarriages with kids are to divorce. In the spirit of engineering the kind of civility that can make everyone&#8217;s life easier, and in the hopes of fostering mutual understanding, here&#8217;s my post.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com">www.noonesthebitch.com</a></p>
<p>Have a read and leave a comment&#8211;what would you like YOUR husband&#8217;s ex to know about your life?</p>


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