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		<title>Who&#8217;s the Bi*ch?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s a new cultural pressure in town&#8211;to befriend your ex&#8217;s wife, or your husband&#8217;s ex. As you might know from reading my posts, I feel strongly that any woman married to a guy with kids and an ex should feel free to just say no to this pressure&#8211;to focus on her marriage and her own [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_655" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.wednesdaymartin.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/tv-womanweb.jpg"><img src="http://www.wednesdaymartin.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/tv-womanweb-300x197.jpg" alt="Tune in to Dr. Phil on Tuesday Dec 1 to hear Jennifer Newcomb Marine and Carol Marine discuss evolving from Mother/Stepmother enemies to friends" title="tv-womanweb" width="300" height="197" class="size-medium wp-image-655" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Tune in to Dr. Phil on Tuesday Dec 1 to hear Jennifer Newcomb Marine and Carol Marine discuss evolving from Mother/Stepmother enemies to friends</p></div><br />
There&#8217;s a new cultural pressure in town&#8211;to befriend your ex&#8217;s wife, or your husband&#8217;s ex. As you might know from reading my posts, I feel strongly that any woman married to a guy with kids and an ex should feel free to just say no to this pressure&#8211;to focus on her marriage and her own mental health and adjustment, given how depleting and decentering the role of stepmother can be and usually is.</p>
<p>But I have to give it up for my friend Jennifer Newcomb Marine and her co-author  &#8211;and kids&#8217; stepmother&#8211;Carol Marine. Like some of you, they chose to put their energy into engineering an effective parenting coalition, and a friendship. And they wrote a book about it: No One&#8217;s the Bitch: A Ten-Step Plan for the Mother and Stepmother Relationship. They will be talking about it on Tuesday, December 1st on the Dr. Phil Show. Let&#8217;s see if he lets them get a word in edgewise&#8230;it should be a great show. Tune in&#8230;and then leave a comment! Or just let me know here: how would you describe your relationship with your ex&#8217;s wife or partner?</p>
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