Posts Tagged ‘psychology today’

Why You Shouldn’t Skip Another Vacation

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

You don't have to actually fish. Just go.


When it comes to roles and responsibilities, stepparenting is as stressful as it gets. I hope you’ll have a look at my latest post for PsychologyToday.com on why you can’t afford to skip a real vacation this year! Once you learn the facts about why you have to do it, tell me here and now: what are your vacation plans?

The Stepmother and the Boy Who Went Missing: Kyron Horman

Friday, July 2nd, 2010

Suspicion has centered on Kyron's stepmother, Terri Horman


Please check out my latest post for psychologytoday.com on the very sad story of the disappearance of seven-year-old Kyron Horman.

Stepmother’s Day is May 16…Does Anyone Know??

Wednesday, May 12th, 2010
Maybe you'll get flowers...

Maybe you'll get flowers...

Hope you’ll have a look at my latest article on psychologytoday.com about Stepmother’s Day, which is (unofficially, of course!) May 16. Have a look…and leave a comment. And tell me about it here and now: will you do anything for Stepmother’s Day? Have you ever?

The Real Scandal of “Sexting”

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

Poor judgment + risk-taking + society's double standards = vulnerable teen girls

Poor judgment + risk-taking + society's double standards = vulnerable teen girls


If you have a teen step/daughter or know anyone who does, you’ll want to read about sexting. Check out my newest post on psychologytoday.com–and leave a comment!

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stepmonster/200912/the-real-scandal-sexting/comments

Cooperation and Conflict: Why It’s Easy to Hate the Other Woman in Psychology Today

Tuesday, December 1st, 2009
Befriending your husband's ex is a new cultural pressure. Shooting for civility is usually a tall enough order!

Befriending your husband's ex is a new cultural pressure. Shooting for civility is usually a tall enough order!

I explore the phenomenon of co-wife cooperation and conflict worldwide in my most recent piece for Psychology Today. Have a read–and post a comment please!

http://www.psychologytoday.com/

How Are You Feeling about the Holiday Season?

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

Holidays can feel stressful when you feel obliged to act as "blending agent"
Do the impending holidays have you feeling extra stressed? You’re not alone. At holiday time, stepfamilies may deal with issues–kids in loyalty binds “boycotting” dad and stepmom; an unsupportive ex reneging on a holiday schedule; couples feeling splintered by his excitement to see the very kids who might be hostile and rejecting toward her–that first families don’t even have to think about. And stepmom–the culturally-designated “blending agent” of the stepfamily–is likely to feel the pressure most of all.

Check out my article on Psychology Today, and leave a comment about your own holiday experiences as a woman married to (or partnered with) a man with kids (you’ll have to cut and paste)

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stepmonster/200911/why-are-there-two-turkeys-happy-holidays-stepfamilies

Is Your Stepchild a Wild Thing? This Might Help…

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009

wild-thingsPlease check out my new post for Psychology Today and leave a comment!

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stepmonster/200910/wild-things-and-the-dance-temperament-in-stepfamily-life

Is This Woman Wicked?!

Tuesday, October 13th, 2009

Please check out my newest post for Psychology Today about the Astor trial.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stepmonster/200910/is-woman-wicked
Phillip Marshall has accused his stepmother, Charlene Marshall, of conniving, scheming, and pulling the strings. Basically, Phillip says, his Dad isn’t guilty–his stepmom is. Have a look–and leave a comment!

Is Stepmom to Blame? Competition over money can make stepfamily life combustible.

Is Stepmom to Blame? Competition over money can make stepfamily life combustible.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stepmonster/200910/is-woman-wicked

“I Don’t Want This Baby After All”! New Post on Psychology Today Blog

Thursday, October 1st, 2009

raffaello-sanzio-madonna-and-child2We're quick and vicious in our judgments of women we deem "insufficiently maternal"Have you been following the story about the family that adopted a one-year-old baby, but decided they couldn’t continue to be his parents after 18 months? Please check out my new post on my Psychology Today blog: ” ‘I don’t want this baby after all!’: Judging Anita Tedaldi.”

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stepmonster/200910/i-dont-want-baby-after-all-judging-anita-tedaldi

Your Kids Want to Kill You: Hollywood’s Psychotic Family Interlopers on Psychology Today

Monday, September 21st, 2009

Have you heard about the movie Orphan? And the soon-to-be-released Stepfather? Check out my latest blog post on psychologytoday:

http://www.psychologytoday.com