Posts Tagged ‘stepchild’

Truths and Lies about Stepmothers…..

Thursday, May 9th, 2013

Ever feel you can do no right?

Ever feel like you’re trapped in a stereotype? I talked to Alexis LLoyd of Junior magazine about it and she wrote a really smart article–props to her!

Having/being an adult stepchild….What do you think?

Thursday, April 18th, 2013


Hope you will have a look at my latest piece for the Daily Telegraph on having/being an adult step”child.” Even the language is confusing!

Resolutions for Stepmothers….on psychologytoday.com

Monday, January 14th, 2013

Resolve to give the Big Lies about stepfamily life the heave-ho in 2013!


Did you make any resolutions earlier this month? I hope you will have a look at my latest post for psychology today … and leave a comment!

Can you help this reader? “What if the adult step kids won’t speak to their stepmother?”

Tuesday, December 18th, 2012

Have you been in her shoes?


A reader of my psychology today.com stepmonster blog posted a question about the situation in her household with her husband’s adult children. The link is here

April Issue of StepMom Magazine!

Monday, April 2nd, 2012

The new issue of StepMom magazine is now available. In it, you will find sound advice, compassion and the information you need to keep yourself and your partnership strong. Hope you will have a look at my piece of Disengaging. What are the benefits of doing less in your remarriage with children? Is disengaging for you?

Read all about it--including my article on disengaging

Call-In Radio Interview for Stepmothers Sept 27

Monday, September 26th, 2011

Testing, testing...please tune in!

I will be discussing the emotional reality of childless and child-free stepmothers with host Mary Kelly-Williams, M.A. on her Blog Talk Radio show September 27 at 11 am EST. Hope you will tune in…you can also call into the show to ask a question.

Why It’s Easier to Love a Stepfather than a Stepmother

Tuesday, June 21st, 2011

Not!

Hope you will have a look at my latest post for psychologytoday.com…and leave a comment!

What do Divorced and Repartnered Dads Really Want for Father’s Day?

Monday, June 13th, 2011

What does father want?


If you’re not a subscriber to StepMom Magazine, here is a chance to read a couple of sample articles from the most recent issue. In one, I discuss the dilemmas of divorced dads on Father’s Day–and the gift your partner with kids will appreciate most of all. Hope you will have a look!

What to do about a stepchild in a loyalty bind? How about…less!

Wednesday, May 18th, 2011

If his kids are in a loyalty bind, take care of YOU

Joanne Richard wrote this article about stepchildren and adult stepchildren in loyalty binds and what a stepmother “should” do to improve the situation. My answer was…nothing! Joanne also quotes my colleague and good friend Dr. Rachelle Katz, author of The Happy Stepmother, one of the only reasearch-based books out there for stepmothers other than my own. Hope you will have a read…and leave a comment.

Blog Talk Radio Interview with Peggy Nolan and Erin Erickson!

Monday, December 20th, 2010

Tune in for Stepmom SOS...


On Monday evening Dec 20 at 8 pm EST I’ll be talking to stepmom bloggers Peggy Nolan and Erin Erickson LIVE on their Blog Talk Radio Show (you might hear my children yelling in the background!) Tune in, listen, call in, send in questions….hope to “talk” to you then!