Posts Tagged ‘stepmother support’

Holiday Tips for Women with Stepkids on Beliefnet.com

Wednesday, December 1st, 2010

Feeling stepmonsterish as you anticipate the ways it might go wrong this year? Having flashbacks of Hellidays past? Beliefnet columnist Therese Borchard is running an article I wrote for surviving and even enjoying the holiday season. Have a read and TELL ME ABOUT IT: WHAT’S YOUR BEST TIP FOR KEEPING YOURSELF HAPPY OVER THE HOLIDAYS WITH STEPS?

Teachable Moments–Recognizing Them and Using Them This Holiday Season

Monday, November 29th, 2010


The term “teachable moment” gets thrown around a lot–but what does it actually mean? One of my favorite educators and developmental psychologists, Rebecca Mannis, Ph.D., has a special guest post on my psychologytoday.com blog on holidays and the teachable moment.

Why Did the Remarried Couple with Kids Make Two Turkeys?

Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010

Women with stepchildren often find holidays stressful. How to cope...


If you’re a woman with stepkids, you might already know the answer. Here’s a piece I wrote for psychologytoday.com on holidays for women with stepchildren. Hope you will have a read and TELL ME ABOUT IT: how are you and your husband or partner with kids celebrating Thanksgiving? With or without the kids? Together or apart? Your relatives, his, or both? Who’s cooking?

Radio Show for Women with Stepkids Monday Sept 22

Monday, November 22nd, 2010

Tune in, call in, listen in....


Hope you will tune in to hear me speak with Susan Swanson on her radio show “On Step” today, Monday Sept 22, at 2 pm EST. We’ll discuss YOUR issues and concerns!
Click here for more info.

Answering YOUR Questions about Being a Woman with Stepkids on November 18

Wednesday, November 17th, 2010

On Thursday November 18 I’ll join a panel of experts including Mary Kelly-Williams, Susan Davis Swanson, Jacque Fletcher, Susan Wisdom and more on Stepmom Magazine’s FB page. We’ll answer YOUR questions about stepmother reality from 1 pm – 5 pm EST. Hope to “see” you there.

Ask a question...get an answer on November 18!

Wicked Giveaway–Win a Free Copy of Stepmonster

Saturday, October 30th, 2010

Evil--or misunderstood?


Halloween seems like a good time to give away a free copy of Stepmonster! So just leave a comment ON MY BLOG about why you’d like a copy, and I’ll choose one respondent at random to win.

UPDATE: CONGRATULATIONS TO “REBECCA” WHOSE NAME WAS CHOSEN AT RANDOM TO RECEIVE A FREE COPY OF STEPMONSTER. REBECCA, I’VE SENT YOU AN EMAIL ABOUT NEXT STEPS. THANK YOU TO YOU ALL FOR ENTERING. THERE WILL BE A WINTER HOLIDAY GIVEAWAY AS WELL SO STAY TUNED! xx wednesday

500th Fan Frenzy–Stepmonster Giveaway

Friday, October 1st, 2010

Okay, a “just for fun” giveaway. Become my 500th Facebook Fan, get a free, autographed copy of my book Stepmonster: A New Look at Why Real Stepmothers Think, Feel, and Act the Way We Do.

All you have to do is “like” my FB author page (enter “Wednesday Martin author” in the FB search engine), and send me an email letting me know you have done so to wednesday@wednesdaymartin.com

The email part is crucial, since that’s how I’ll know who is #500. Good luck! xx wednesday

Stepmom Roundtable hosted by coparenting101.com

Tuesday, September 28th, 2010

Nothing a little tea and social support can't fix..


Deesha Philyaw, co-founder with her ex-husband Mike of coparenting101.com, recently interviewed me, and then conducted a stepmom roundtable discussion with some of the stepfamily bloggers you may know and love, including Heather Hetchler of CafeSmom.com and Bridgett Lemos-Norman of In the Blender. I sound a lot like Minnie Mouse in the interview–what’s new? can I have a voice coach, please?–but I think you’ll really like hearing these other women talk about their lives married to men with children!

Workshop for Women with Stepkids (and their husbands too!)

Friday, September 24th, 2010

There's room for you at the table


Last minute reminder about the workshop I will be co-conducting with Dr. Rachelle Katz on Saturday, September 25th at the West Side Y (W. 63rd St between Central Park West and Broadway) in New York City.

Click here for more information and to register. Hope to see you there!

The Emancipated Stepfamily

Thursday, September 9th, 2010

Talkin' About a Stepfamily Revolution


I recently sat down to be interviewed by Giselle Minoli of the Examiner, New York. Turns out Giselle, a stepmother herself, is interested in a stepmother revolution of sorts. We discussed stepmothering in context–social, political, economic–and imagined ways to make life easier for stepfamilies in general and women with stepchildren in particular. Hope you will have a look at our four-part interview and let me know your thoughts: what would a healthy, emancipated stepfamily look like?